I slept late yesterday coz chatting with my bf for an hour or so and finally couldnt talk anymore coz i was really sleepy :) hung up the phone and sleep. In the morning at 8am, phone rang and I was really unwilling to pick up the damn phone and who called in that time must get scolded by me and guess what, HOMEDEPOT call me...a commercial call, damn damn damn!! Cant even scold..and i hung up. At 9am, phone rang again, i had a short conversation with Ting and i continue to sleep. At 10am, the phone rang again, Yuki called me for her sister who wanna work for my aunt...and i was like %^&*, why call me not my aunt??? Anyway, I talked nicely and i hung up again. The conclusion is...I didnt really get to sleep. I woke up and online and chat with my buddy PWL and we chat for an hour. After that, went to do my STA since the test is on friday, I need to get it done before the test. When I was doing my hw, someone knocked on my door and it was the BRIGHTHOUSE guy who I already made apointment with to install cable and internet in my house. And oh god, he didnt help me to fix it, the internet cant work and he juz threw me a CD and asked me to install myself. I cant even talk to him and he said:" Sign this so I can get out of here." Ofcoz, i sign it angrily and he left in 1 second. And god damn, I install the damn CD and it doesnt work at all. Cant online makes me frustrated and finally i called Brighthouse and I told the guy what was going on and he helped me to fix it. and here I am to online. Before this, I was using my laptop stealing other ppl's line to online:) Anyway, it takes my whole day and i havent do my hw yet. Tomorrow is HALLOWEEN...yuhoo~~ going to trick or treat with kidos...yuhoo~~~ and I will hav a surprise party at my house:) chao and elise are coming to join this celebration...:)
Ok ok..this is basically my day for today and I hav tons of movie to watch...so happy:)
love this HK drama
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A very good drama to watch. Good story line.My favourite all time.
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Another 1 that I watch is 奸人坚 which is not so good. Kinda boring and meaningless.
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The american drama that I love is Gossip Girl
You know you love me
xoxo
gossip girl
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Found this interesting, so copy and paste here, enjoy~
有位心理學家曾寫道，一個成熟稱得上真愛的戀情 必須經過四個階段，那就是： 共存(Codependent) 反依賴(Counterdependent) 獨立(Independent) 共生(Interdependent)
階段之間轉換所需的時間不一定，因人而易。
第一個階段：共存。 這是熱戀時期，情人不論何時何地總希望能膩在一起。
第二個階段：反依賴。 等到情感穩定後， 至少會有一方想要有多一點自己的時間作自己想做的事， 這時另一方就會感到被冷落。
第三個階段：獨立。 這是第二個階段的延續，要求更多獨立自主的時間。
第四個階段：共生。 這時新的相處之道已經成形， 你（妳）的他（她）已經成為你（妳）最親的人。 你們在一起相互扶持、一起開創屬於你們自己的人生。 你們在一起不會互相牽，而會互相成長。
但是，大部分的人都通不過第二或第三階段， 而選擇分手一途，這是非常可惜的。 很多事只要好好溝通都會沒事的，不要耍個性， 不要想太多要互相信任，這樣第二、三階段的時間就會縮短。 和所愛的人相遇相戀是非常不容易的，不要輕言放棄。
兩人相聚是因為有緣，相知是因為有心， 真的得好好珍惜這福份莫說分手不是無由， 希望看到上述的四個階段， 真能給大家一些啟示與領悟並惜緣。
我們會逐漸變成我們所愛的人。 妳和他本來沒有相同之處，外表不相像， 性格也是南轅北轍，一旦愛上了，年深日久，妳會驚訝妳的眼睛有點像他的眼睛，他的微笑也有點像妳的微笑。 你們走路的步伐也有點相似，說話的語氣也愈來愈相像。
他的脖子上有一顆痣， 一天，妳發現自己脖子上也多了一顆痣， 原來我們會變成我們所愛的人。
妳本來喜歡腳踏實地的人，而他一向比較輕佻， 但你們愛上了，他竟會不知不覺變成一個老實人， 這個改變，連他自己也不曾察覺。
他本來喜歡活潑的女孩子，卻愛上了拘謹的妳， 這些日子，妳竟愈來愈活潑，妳差點認不出自己。 我們會逐漸變成對方理想中的人， 這種改變，絕對不是刻意的。
兩個人愈愛得長久，氣質也愈來愈相近， 妳曾經以為他不是妳夢寐以求的那種類型， 然而，有一天，妳驚訝地發現， 他已經變成妳喜歡的那種類型，妳不必再到處尋覓，他就是妳要找的人。
深深愛著一個人的時候，妳原來真的會一點一點的失去自己， 為甚麼妳還會覺得快樂呢？ 大概是因為妳在失去的當兒，也是賺了，妳把他的氣質和他的微笑都賺回來..
幸福很單純... 所以要很單純的人才容易獲得..... 與我親愛的朋友們分享之
